Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.20.2015, 01:51 PM:
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Posted by husky51 on 04.20.2015, 05:30 PM: Better than being 16 or 17 in that situation... or 14 as one of my best friends sister was.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.20.2015, 06:34 PM: True. Her sister had four kids by the time she was 21...
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Posted by FlareNetworkC on 04.20.2015, 07:02 PM: 21 is REALLY young.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.20.2015, 08:08 PM: At least 10-15 of the girls, and some guys' girlfriends, I graduated high school with three years ago have children or are pregnant now. Kind of crazy to think that. lol My other friend who had a baby last year found out the news of this friend and told her to really think hard about her decision because motherhood is difficult.
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Posted by saviour2012 on 04.21.2015, 12:55 AM:
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Posted by FlareNetworkC on 04.21.2015, 10:23 AM:
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Posted by husky51 on 04.21.2015, 01:32 PM: Age alone isn't always a factor in being a good parent. I had a co-worker that when I started a new job (CHP) I found myself staying with them for a month. George was about 35 and his wife (forgot name) was slightly younger. They had a 4yo child named Aron, named after Elvis Presley that they nicknamed 'Dump' !!!!!!
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Posted by Saddletank on 04.21.2015, 03:19 PM: HL: (of last weekend) Dirty weekend away! Was fun. My new friend is great to be with!
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.21.2015, 03:30 PM: Age doesn't have much relevance in the reason why I was upset about my friend's. lol I know girls 17 to 21 who make awesome parents. But it's very very hard on them. Some are single now but make out alright. What's key is support and also a sense of maturity. My friend really doesn't have the maturity to be a good parent I think.. maybe she'll make out okay, but I hope eventually she'll leave the man she's with. But I'm sad because I know that's not very likely..
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Posted by husky51 on 04.21.2015, 03:55 PM: @FFF
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Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 04.21.2015, 06:15 PM: Yeah personally I don't see myself having a child before I'm 30. I don't know whether it's selfish, but I see my twenties as a time where I get to focus completely on myself and my own independence. I can make risky decisions and not worry that they'll effect others if they go the wrong way.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.21.2015, 09:52 PM:
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Posted by husky51 on 04.22.2015, 01:54 AM: FFF, hahaha...Moving around??? lol
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Posted by saviour2012 on 04.22.2015, 09:02 AM:
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.22.2015, 01:20 PM: By moving around I meant like to other countries. lol I would definitely love to take a child everywhere and whatnot, but for the next decade I might be all over the place and I'm not sure if I could afford the costs to bring an extra person with me, at least not a child.
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Posted by husky51 on 04.22.2015, 07:32 PM: Where is that? Sweden???
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 04.22.2015, 08:26 PM:
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Posted by FlareNetworkC on 04.24.2015, 10:23 AM: Hl: I PR'd at my track meet! My new time for a half-mile is 3:04.
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Posted by husky51 on 04.24.2015, 11:17 AM: You'll get there, just keep trying...
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