Posted by husky51 on 07.15.2016, 02:04 AM:
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.15.2016, 05:35 AM:
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Posted by Kazegami on 07.22.2016, 01:30 PM: LL: so I've been waiting a long time for the university to get in touch with me about what to do about my medication while I'm in Japan, and with a month to go I still had nothing so I emailed them only to be told I hadn't given the storage information I'd been asked for ('and we can't help you if you don't do what you're asked').
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.22.2016, 02:57 PM: LL: When you open up to a friend who encourages you to tell her everything, but she decides to cut you out a few days later and feels everything you're going through is too much for her. |
Posted by Kazegami on 07.22.2016, 04:24 PM: Ugh, I'm sorry that happened to you, FFF. That's really hurtful.
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Posted by saviour2012 on 07.22.2016, 05:03 PM: i am taking the proposing as to asking to marry. I did not get why you are shocked. I mean we are not exactly little anymore. 24-30 is a great time to start a family. if you are mentally and financially stable.
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Posted by Kazegami on 07.22.2016, 05:25 PM: He's 21 and not finished university yet. That, and he hadn't said a word to me about it. They've also been together less than a year. According to his mother he's not planning to actually get married anytime soon, not until he's finished university and has a stable job and so on. Anyway, I have good reason to be as surprised as I am. I know him.
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Posted by fenkashi on 07.22.2016, 07:10 PM: Wow well, congrats (?) to your friend! I hope it all goes well despite the surprise. It's always a weird feeling when friends start making that level of commitment and you don't entirely know where it came from.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.22.2016, 08:07 PM: Thanks, Kaz. <3 I felt really betrayed.. One of my best friends is giving me total silent treatment as well after I opened up to her, but I hope she is just busy. I don't want people to pick sides.. And I wanted to be open because I've been struggling alone for so long. I hope this all passes soon and I can start being genuinely happy again. Also hoping those friends will cool down and come back to me but if not I guess it's their loss.
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Posted by saviour2012 on 07.23.2016, 04:27 AM:
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.23.2016, 11:36 PM: LL: So.. My best friend also decided to side with my ex. I don't really understand why anyone has to pick a side. I'm pretty hurt by this but I guess my friendship with her didn't mean as much as I thought. She seems confused and she thinks my judgement is bad and that I see him as a bad person. I don't at all and corrected her on that. I've been sort of irrational lately but that's kind of to be expected with how many different emotions I'm facing at once.. Starting to think more clearly now.
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Posted by jusomekid on 07.25.2016, 08:40 AM: @FFF
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.26.2016, 07:51 AM: Thank you. <3
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Posted by makc on 07.26.2016, 10:38 AM:
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.26.2016, 12:03 PM: I guess strong isn't exactly what I meant. At the moment, I'm just feeling very hurt and angry. As much as I would like to dismiss what she has said to me as if it were nothing, I can't at the moment.
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Posted by makc on 07.26.2016, 01:11 PM: what kind of help are you looking for here. it does not sound like you need any advice, instead you do, indeed, need someone to just hug you and maybe give a shoulder to cry on, which is not really possible to do over the internet well maybe some other people in this forum do know you, and see other options.
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Posted by makc on 07.26.2016, 01:15 PM: was just trying to remember what I did in the situations like yours, well, I don't think I have any magic tricks. I managed to convince myself that I don't need those people and need to go on with my life, and it worked until the next time very same **** happened. so, for me it was just time passing that helped every time. lucky me, that was never long time to wait.
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Posted by Kazegami on 07.26.2016, 02:15 PM: This reminds me of when a close friend of mine at university got out of her relationship last year. They'd been together... three years? She said she didn't really realise it at the time but looking back, he'd been really emotionally abusive to her and damaged her self esteem. He was also one of those quite popular, charming types. She seems to really hate him now.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.26.2016, 03:56 PM: I wasn't really looking for advice. haha I don't think I need any, I just need to get it out there what's happened.
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Posted by Saddletank on 07.26.2016, 06:31 PM: HL: Watched Princess Kaguya at a little indie arts theatre in Northampton with my daughter.
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