Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 07.14.2012, 03:09 PM: HL: Work went nice and quickly today and was quite fun at points!
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Posted by husky51 on 07.14.2012, 04:06 PM: Not trying to be mean, but maybe it is better to find out now...?
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Posted by Saddletank on 07.14.2012, 06:44 PM: NC - can you not just have an adult conversation with him about it and ask him to be reasonable and mature and let you both put it behind you?
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Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 07.14.2012, 07:09 PM: Ah, yeah I've asked him to come for a coffee or something so we can just clear the air or whatever. It just feels like whenever we talk, despite him saying how he wants to be friends, he always just goes on about how guilty he feels and I end up consoling and reassuring him. Somehow in all this he has ended up the victim? And I just feel that this whole thing has been so weird and he hasn't told me the complete truth but I don't know, hopefully he'll do so when I see him.
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Posted by husky51 on 07.15.2012, 03:48 AM: Yeah, girl troubles ain't no picnic, either... lol
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Posted by fenkashi on 07.15.2012, 06:00 AM: HL: I have solved my boy troubles! And I had a really good day.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.15.2012, 09:25 AM: HL: Bought a really beautiful vintage style bike for university.
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Posted by husky51 on 07.15.2012, 02:47 PM: Rooting for you, FFF |
Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.15.2012, 09:03 PM: Aww, thanks husky. :'3
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Posted by Nausicaa_Cat on 07.16.2012, 09:24 AM: FFF, tell him he's being a bonehead. It's hugely unfair of him to expect you to find it entirely easy around his friends if they don't always speak your language, he needs to appreciate the effort you're making to keep up with them at all. As well as this if he's afraid of his skin darkening (which I understand is a social hang-up for some asians, but frankly it's dumb) than he can wear a hat or something - he shouldn't sacrifice spending precious time with you over something so superficial.
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.16.2012, 02:13 PM: I've actually gotten quite mad over how he expects me to just conform. XD His friends understand better than he does sometimes, as I talk to the majority of the younger ones on FB quite often, and they've apologized sometimes over not speaking to me because they're afraid their English in poor (when it's not, but I understand that, although I tell them to make an effort to try).
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Posted by husky51 on 07.16.2012, 05:46 PM: An anniversary can be as little as simply sitting, holding hands and eating a cookie together. Or whatever... It doesn't HAVE to cost anything if there are monetary constraints...
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.16.2012, 06:19 PM:
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Posted by husky51 on 07.16.2012, 07:19 PM: Not to be rude, but sizes, too? i don't know if Canada uses the metric system for clothing sizes... but if not, then that has to be converted over to metric as that is what is used, at least in Japan, over there. |
Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.16.2012, 11:00 PM:
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Posted by Roarkiller on 07.17.2012, 02:32 AM: Save my sister, everyone else in my family has the same foot length. Even though my dad and mom are much shorter than the three stooges in the house.
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Posted by husky51 on 07.17.2012, 02:43 AM: That's what iron-on name tags are for, Roar... |
Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.17.2012, 09:30 AM: lol Reminds me when I go shopping for men's shoes with my boyfriend for his relatives. They're all so small! I mean, his are small, but his shoe size is bigger than all of there's (which he gloats about, and then I remind him his 12-year-old cousin I think is adorable will catch up to him someday since he's one size below).
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Posted by husky51 on 07.17.2012, 12:48 PM:
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Posted by foreignfilmfreak on 07.18.2012, 09:45 AM: Pfft hahaha, husky. XD And it's only contemplating in the long run. I don't want to date someone unless there's a possibility of marriage in the future. That's just me though. I'm the only person I know who actually wants to get married and not live my life as a single mother, as many of the girls I knew wanted.
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